when you know that a relationship is destined to end, as it is toxic in nature, do you completely sever all ties asap or do you just quietly tip-toe backwards?

i am a severing of all ties type. but only after i have tip-toed backwards – to no avail.

it took me 40 years of dragging things on to finally give myself permission to honor myself in this way.

just wondering how my sweet soul-mateys do it.

❤